I had a threesome and got pregnant but both men want me to get a termination

A letter to Coleen (UK Mirror) from a reader, and as interesting as it is, we decided to share it here too…

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A few weeks ago, my fiance and I decided to experiment a little bit in the bedroom. We’re both very open-minded and not shy when it comes to sex. We ended up having a threesome with a close friend of his and now I’m pregnant. I don’t know if the child belongs to my fiance or his friend. I’m only six weeks at this moment.

I’ve wanted a child for many years and had been growing disheartened as, while we weren’t counting down the days and minutes until ovulation, we hadn’t been using contraception for well over a year and nothing had happened.

Having always suffered from polycystic ovary syndrome, I knew my chances of conceiving naturally weren’t good. Only a couple of months ago our doctor said he’d have to refer us to a specialist given that we’d been trying to conceive for more than a year.

My fiance’s friend knows I’m pregnant. He also has a partner and I’m not sure if she knows but he has said that he wants me to have an abortion. My fiance has told me to have a termination, too.

I had an abortion when I was 20 and it always kept me wondering, “what if that was my only chance?” I’m now nearly 34 so this may actually be my final chance. I love my fiance and want things to work out but everyone seems to keep forgetting I didn’t have the threesome on my own and this is my baby.

Regardless of whether the child is biologically linked to my fiance, I don’t see any reason why he can’t love him or her. Gay parents, adoptive parents and parents who’ve used egg or sperm donors don’t love their kids any less – why should he?

Please help. Should I have a termination and hope one day I’ll have a child? Should I keep the baby and hope it belongs to my fiance? Or should I run away and raise the child on my own?